Orgasm News. If I think in the " vanilla " way, I will believe ( like most people do ) that My mate must be sexually satisfied in order to always be faithful to Me. History has repeatedly proven to us that this is absolutely wrong. Men cheat all the time on women,divorces keep destroying families and thousands of Women are miserable. It took Me time to realize that in order to keep My sub in line, I must have him sexually controlled and denied.
It is a rule for Me and many other Women that : a denied man, is an obedient man. A man who is sexually satisfied, loses interest of his Wife.The reason is both mental and physical.That's men's nature.After they ejaculate, they lose interest of everything for hours,perhaps for days. But a man who is denied,and aroused, he keeps having in his mind how to satisfy his Wife and he becomes an obedient and happy man.Thus, the man does everything it takes to satisfy and make his Wife happy, in order to gain her grace and return to him this grace by allowing him an orgasm.
This - in My and many other Women's opinion - is one of the most basic aspects of the D/s lifestyle.
The orgasm denial issue captured My mind from the very beggining that i found out it's existence.
As we all know, both in the couple must agree in order to move on with the D/s. So, Me and My sub agreed that I'm in charge and I'm the one who controls his orgasm as well as his life in general. I had to experiment with that and I assure you that it wasn't easy.Things are tough especially when you are deeply in love.I couldn't keep him denied for long periods.I used to retreat and finally allowed him ejaculation because I thought that by doing this we would both be satisfied. But that was a lie.After the sexual satisfaction he would forgot everything that had to do with the D/s.That made Me feel inadequate,disappointed and finally out of the D/s.
What's for sure is that the Woman is the one that pulls the strings.Since I realized that I was the one in charge, everything changed.I made the decisions and he obeyed.I would order what was to be done and what was not to be done and he had to abide by the rules.The key to the success is for all Women to have faith in themselves and high self- estim and for all men to respect and trust Women.
I keep My sub denied for long periods. Not as long as he should be, but long enough to be reminded of his position and I think that he is courageous enough to remain denied without a chastity device on.In the beggining of our D/s, he was absolutely disobedient and used to masturbate himself frequently.Finally, he realized that a real submissive should never touch his penis.In order to make the denial issue easier for him and for me, I asked him to order a chastity device.
We have ordered various devices but they were not secure enough so, I told him that he should get a piercing that would enable him to wear a completely secure device.He got a P.A piercing and now we are expecting one of MsLori's device, the #15 spiral device.However, he obeys Me and accepts the days of denial that I appoint to him.I usually deny him for 16 days unless he misbehaves so I increase the days.
I refuse to give him the pleasure of an orgasm.I prefer to " milk " him.Besides, what matters is his health stability and not his pleasure in any way.We both know that sex is for My pleasure only.
The fascinating thing here is that, he is so willing to sexually satisfy Me, that he has turned his tongue to the most skilful organ of his body.he performs oral sex to Me twice a day to say the least.
" Prostate Milking " is another issue which i will refer to later on.It is absolutely necessary for his prostate gland's health.
I think that, now that I'm so fanatically used to deny my sub, I will finally forbid his orgasms for good.
I also think that the evolution of such a denial will finally lead Me to the desicion of having him permanently locked in his chastity.
This is the best way in order to keep him totally consentrated on Me.
Everything has been finalized in My mind after all the internal struggles and inhibitions I had when we first got into the D/s. I was so cautious for various things but now I'm more positive and determined than ever.
Yes, My sub must be denied , he must not get the pleasure of an orgasm and his responsibility among others is to make sure that I get as many orgasms as I like.
After all, sex is for Women's pleasure.
It is a rule for Me and many other Women that : a denied man, is an obedient man. A man who is sexually satisfied, loses interest of his Wife.The reason is both mental and physical.That's men's nature.After they ejaculate, they lose interest of everything for hours,perhaps for days. But a man who is denied,and aroused, he keeps having in his mind how to satisfy his Wife and he becomes an obedient and happy man.Thus, the man does everything it takes to satisfy and make his Wife happy, in order to gain her grace and return to him this grace by allowing him an orgasm.
This - in My and many other Women's opinion - is one of the most basic aspects of the D/s lifestyle.
The orgasm denial issue captured My mind from the very beggining that i found out it's existence.
As we all know, both in the couple must agree in order to move on with the D/s. So, Me and My sub agreed that I'm in charge and I'm the one who controls his orgasm as well as his life in general. I had to experiment with that and I assure you that it wasn't easy.Things are tough especially when you are deeply in love.I couldn't keep him denied for long periods.I used to retreat and finally allowed him ejaculation because I thought that by doing this we would both be satisfied. But that was a lie.After the sexual satisfaction he would forgot everything that had to do with the D/s.That made Me feel inadequate,disappointed and finally out of the D/s.
What's for sure is that the Woman is the one that pulls the strings.Since I realized that I was the one in charge, everything changed.I made the decisions and he obeyed.I would order what was to be done and what was not to be done and he had to abide by the rules.The key to the success is for all Women to have faith in themselves and high self- estim and for all men to respect and trust Women.
I keep My sub denied for long periods. Not as long as he should be, but long enough to be reminded of his position and I think that he is courageous enough to remain denied without a chastity device on.In the beggining of our D/s, he was absolutely disobedient and used to masturbate himself frequently.Finally, he realized that a real submissive should never touch his penis.In order to make the denial issue easier for him and for me, I asked him to order a chastity device.
We have ordered various devices but they were not secure enough so, I told him that he should get a piercing that would enable him to wear a completely secure device.He got a P.A piercing and now we are expecting one of MsLori's device, the #15 spiral device.However, he obeys Me and accepts the days of denial that I appoint to him.I usually deny him for 16 days unless he misbehaves so I increase the days.
I refuse to give him the pleasure of an orgasm.I prefer to " milk " him.Besides, what matters is his health stability and not his pleasure in any way.We both know that sex is for My pleasure only.
The fascinating thing here is that, he is so willing to sexually satisfy Me, that he has turned his tongue to the most skilful organ of his body.he performs oral sex to Me twice a day to say the least.
" Prostate Milking " is another issue which i will refer to later on.It is absolutely necessary for his prostate gland's health.
I think that, now that I'm so fanatically used to deny my sub, I will finally forbid his orgasms for good.
I also think that the evolution of such a denial will finally lead Me to the desicion of having him permanently locked in his chastity.
This is the best way in order to keep him totally consentrated on Me.
Everything has been finalized in My mind after all the internal struggles and inhibitions I had when we first got into the D/s. I was so cautious for various things but now I'm more positive and determined than ever.
Yes, My sub must be denied , he must not get the pleasure of an orgasm and his responsibility among others is to make sure that I get as many orgasms as I like.
After all, sex is for Women's pleasure.
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